We often don't report suicide, but this is not about drawing
attention to an individual. Rather, we are hoping to raise awareness and help
people who are struggling.
This is an issue that impacts people and families every day. In our country, 22 veterans commit suicide every day. That's
one every 65 minutes.
One local vet says that's one too many, and that's why it's
important to know that there are services in our area that can help.
Kent Laudeman, a Vietnam veteran, knows firsthand what's
it's like being exposed to situations that can contribute to mental health
issues.
“In the service when you’re deployed, I don’t care if you’re
a transporter of anything like that, you’re going to experience things you
never thought you would experience in your life,” said Laudeman.
When he returned home after the war, he had a family and
found work. He says he's one of the lucky ones.
“When you’re by yourself you can get pulled back in to those negative kinds of experiences, and that’s what’s going to contribute to someone spiraling down having thoughts of suicide,” said Laudeman.
Laudeman says while some people can handle being back,
others can't.
“I think veterans unfortunately, men and women, have been
exposed to situations that they think they should be tough and be able to handle
it,” said Laudeman. “In many cases you need to express that in a group kind of
way, in a therapist kind of way.”
He says veterans shouldn't be afraid to ask for help, and
relatives, friends, and even strangers should recognize when things don't seem
right.
“What’s wrong with saying, ‘Hey how are you feeling? Is
something bothering you? Can I help you?’” said Laudeman. “There’s nothing
wrong with asking that question. I think that little question may break the
ice.”
He says that the first step and by talking to someone and
you could start to move forward.
Again, if you or someone you know is suffering from PTSD,
depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues, don't be afraid to ask for
help.
You can contact the Veterans Crisis Line at 1-800-273-8255
and Press 1.
The Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
The Bikers Helping Veterans program of Indiana has a direct line where you can contact a veteran directly to talk. Their number is 317-801-1904 and is answered day or night.
SOURCE: WSBT TV
